So maybe I was wrong about the last post. We didn’t end up moving my computer yet, or the the only tv left in this place with our satellite receiver. A and I are sitting here on the floor watching the 13inch tv, Curious George, Bo on the GO. all the good shows. I have come over here because well basically I’m loosing my f*&**king mind at the inlaws. Omg, it’s awful, not like I originally wanted to move quickly, but it would have been nice to have A a little more adjusted to the place before a new baby comes. Let me describe the situation some;

We are living in their basement, it’s nice, it’s all done over (of course after the flooding the whole house is redone). We have our living room setup there, our kitchen table, a fridge, no stove. There is a bathroom, but the fan for the shower thing hasn’t been installed so I haven’t showered there yet. YUCK! The type of person I am, is one that trys to stay out of other people’s business. The kids have their beds upstairs and are to sleep up there only, I want them down with me so I can watch them, and discipline and whatnot. I am not there for them to babysit, whatever. So to get that through the 6&7 yr old’s heads, it’s pretty tough.

Anyway, this morning, I have to take them upstairs to feed them, because I have no dishes, sink whatever, it sucks ass, because A is running through the house, talking and happy. They are upstairs, and I say to the kids is SHHHH SHHHH SHHHH< i feel like a fucking parrot, repeating myself all the time, it’s horrible. It may be the excess hormones from a 9 month pregnant woman, who knows, but I’m not dealing well with this. AND. IT”S. ONLY. BEEN. 2 . DAYS! Have I mentioned the only thing done with my new house is the ground is dug, that’s it, they ran into trouble and hit rock, but they resolved it yesterday. The footer hasn’t been poured nothing is done, I’m freaking bad. Anyway, that’s my rant about that.

So back to this morning, I had a meltdown, cryed my face off, took A over here and we got in the tubby (as A calls it) hehe, so now I’m just going to sit around here in my empty home so I don’t invade over there and wish that I could make my new home magically appear. This is just awful. I have to make the kids supper tonight and I don’t feel right going upstairs to her kitchen to make food for them. (*this is my MIL, not my parents!!, I wouldn’t care if it were mine) NOT to mention that all my MIL and FIL do is fight, constantly, OOOOOHHH Shoot me, really though, this has to get better, because I don’t know if I’ll be able to stand it. Oh and hubby is at work till 7:30 tonight, for 13 hrs so I would just make him do it if he were home, since it’s his family, but nope he’s not here. So that’s my babble, I am upset, practically crying right now, still full of a headcold, and did i mention upset…..

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14 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Chas
    Nov 27, 2007 @ 14:52:00

    Oh, I just couldn’t do it. You are a very brave lady. I’m sure that eventually you’ll get used to it and it’ll seem like second nature, but I understand that it’ll take some getting used to.

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  2. Merr
    Nov 27, 2007 @ 20:31:00

    Dang that sucks! I would feel the same way. It’s hard to be in someone else’s territory. Sounds like a good night for McDonalds!

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  3. Carolyn
    Nov 27, 2007 @ 23:09:00

    I don’t know how you’re doing it! After a day with my parents OR the inlaws I’m ready to leave, so just knowing that I couldn’t leave would make me…ANGRY. Hopefully they’ll build your new house with super speed!

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  4. my4kids
    Nov 28, 2007 @ 09:08:00

    We lived with my parents while remodeling our first home when I had Izzak and was pregnant with Joshua. It was bad enough at my parents cause well like you said it was my parents but still. I hated it. If it had been my inlaws….I might have ended up sleeping in the car…

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  5. Emma in Canada
    Nov 29, 2007 @ 07:14:00

    I couldn’t have lived with my inlaws. In fact in 8 years of marriage I only spent one night there and vowed never to do it again.

    Good luck to you! I hope the house building goes quickly!

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  6. AnGlOpHiLe FoOtBaLl FaNaTiC
    Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:53:00

    I’m sorry it’s turning out so badly. I hope you guys figure out your territory enough for you to be able to get some things done. I’m with you. It’s so different at your parent’s vs in laws.

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  7. Erin
    Nov 30, 2007 @ 19:10:00

    I hope things get better for you soon…hopefully your house will go up quickly so you don’t have to be there long!

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  8. Lisanne
    Dec 02, 2007 @ 19:55:00

    Oooooh! I bet that you’re having your baby! hehe 🙂

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  9. Shannon
    Dec 02, 2007 @ 23:51:00

    Oh I am sooo sorry hun… that really sucks… hugs!

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  10. MrsSSG
    Dec 03, 2007 @ 17:14:00

    new blog info

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  11. my4kids
    Dec 04, 2007 @ 09:53:00

    Is there a baby yet??
    We need to see pictures…..

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  12. Jessica
    Dec 04, 2007 @ 14:19:00

    I’m SO sorry! I can’t imagine being in that situation. I hope it gets better, especially with the baby coming! I hope we don’t have to wait too long for an update on that!

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  13. Sara
    Dec 05, 2007 @ 20:24:00

    so I guess this means the baby is here??

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  14. Lesley
    Dec 06, 2007 @ 05:56:00

    Wow, you poor thing, I hope that you can adjust as best as you can until you move into your new place. I hope your doing alright and that bubby has arived safe and sound and that your getting some rest right now.
    I know all about living having such cramped spaces and living with people that you don’t want to live with or don’t get along with.. It’s twice as hard for you as the In-laws are family.
    Hugs and if you have had bubby..Congratulations…
    Luv Lesley

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